Welcome Again!!!

Coming back at it again!

It has been a very long time since I’ve blogged and I don’t know why i stopped. Looking back at it, I see that I was inexperience in what I wanted to write about. I still don’t know what to write about but at least I can use this to write on what is on my mind.

Keeping it short, I am now 27 years old, married to the man of my dreams whom I have dated for 7 years and have a wonderful son that just arrived to this world this month. I am happy and ecstatic and I can’t believe how lucky I am. Given the news that I was going to have a hard time conceiving and then getting this bundle of joy, is saying that miracles do happen. This blog is going to change just how my life has changed. So if you want to go on a ride with me about my life, you are more welcomed to!


Allergies make it hard.

So I was working around coconut and I found out I an extremely allergic to it. I had some coconut dust to the lip area and now I have swelling and a rash. It’s painful but at least I am able to keep it in control. But no make up which sucks. Any reccomendations?

Love yourself and be confident in who you are. #love

All my life, I was told to be a certain way. Being a preacher’s daughter didn’t make that any less stressful. If you’re a preacher’s kid, you had to act a certain way and do certain things that make you look like a good kid.

You were told not to gain so much weight, can’t wear certain clothes that were revealing, and the etiquette of talking to the church members were suppose to be very specific and very polite. I hated it. I would end up not eating a lot or well because I needed to be skinny, and I would just keep quiet and have my mom dress me up because of what people will say.

It took me until college to realize that I can’t have a skinny body the way I had it (I was close to anorexic) It was ok to have a little bit of fat. I also finally realized that I can’t please everyone and should accept it. So the first thing I did was start eating enough to get full without overindulging. Oh my goodness that felt good. It took me years to finally accept me for myself but I still have a way to go.

Just to keep this decently short, I just want to say that I know what it’s like to have the constant saying that I needed to be someone I really didn’t feel like I was. It took me years but I am getting there. Now with a newborn, I’m learning to love the stretch marks and the ¬†excess skin but that doesn’t mean that I won’t work out. I just want to have that positive image and positive attitude as an example for my son.

Welcome all!!! :)

Hello Everyone!!,

My name is Rebecca but my family calls me Beckey for short. I am a 25 year old woman who has gone through the tomboy time as well as goth and preppy time. I have gone through the awkward stages in high school and I’m still going through awkward stage. I do not consider myself an expert nor do i want people thinking what I say is law. I hope this blog just helps you with a boost of confidence. Please let me know what you want me to talk about. It may say makeup, nails, and hair but I also want it to be something more.¬†

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